So what's the truth?

The thing about me is that I'm all for integrity, decency and honesty. I mean I would rather be told the truth and get over it rather than be kept in the dark and get insecure about it all my life. But of course there are some people out there who would rather be patronized. So why don't those contestants in American Idol take rejection with a little bit of humour, cos really, it's funny.